FAQs

What is the shuttle schedule?

For the welcome party:

The shuttle will pick up at:

  • 7:10 PM: El Pueblo Inn

  • 7:15 PM: Sonoma Plaza (outside El Dorado Hotel)

For the return trip, the shuttle will have a few options, either leave at:

  • 8:30 PM

  • 9:30 PM

For the wedding day:

The shuttle will pick up at:

  • 2:10 PM: Sonoma Plaza (outside El Dorado Hotel)

  • 2:15 PM: El Pueblo Inn

For the return trip, the shuttle will have a few options, either leave at:

  • 9:00 PM

  • 10:00 PM

What time should we arrive for the wedding ceremony?

Please arrive at 2:30 PM for our 3:00 PM ceremony.

What should I do if I am late to the ceremony?

If you are late to the ceremony, please do not walk down the aisle and try to find a seat. While we want all our friends and family there, we would appreciate if you wait to join us until the reception. We thank you for understanding.

What is the dress code for the wedding?

The dress code for the wedding is Cocktail Attire.

  • What we recommend for men: suit & tie or slacks & a nice button-up with dress shoes.

  • What we recommend for women: cocktail dress or nice sun dress.

We hope you see this day as an opportunity to have fun and dress up! The only thing we ask is that you please not wear white dresses, jeans, sneakers, or flip flops.

What colors are the bridal party wearing?

Wear any color you want, but if it helps you coordinate:

The bridesmaids will be wearing a dusty rose, the groomsmen/women are wearing dark gray, and the groom will be wearing light gray.

What is the dress code for the welcome party?

The dress code for the welcome party is “dressy casual”. Wear what you might wear to a nice dinner out.

How do I RSVP?

To RSVP, go here. You’ll find the password in your invitation suite.

What if I’ve already RSVP-ed through the Save the Date link?

Even if you’ve already sent in an initial response through the Save the Date form, please fill out the RSVP form. There are additional pieces of information we need, such as your entree choice and whether you’ll be attending other weekend events (like the welcome party).

When do I need to RSVP by?

Please RSVP no later than May 3, 2025. The earlier the better! To RSVP, go here.

Are children permitted at the wedding or welcome party?

While we love children and would love to have all of them join us, our venue has a strict limit on number of guests and so we have decided to limit the children invited to those of the wedding party, with whom we have already spoken. If your child/children were not listed on your invitation, unfortunately they are not able to attend. We apologize in advance for any inconvenience this may cause.

What weather should we expect?

In the summer, Sonoma is typically dry and hot during the day, but temperatures drop 10-20 degrees at night. Make sure to bring a jacket, as the wedding is 100% outdoors!

Are ride services like Uber and Lyft available in the area?

Uber and Lyft both operate in the area, but they can be unreliable, so please build a 15-20 min wait into your plans. We will be offering a shuttle (see top of page).

Is there parking at the welcome party or wedding venue?

Yes, parking is available directly in front of both the welcome party and wedding venue.

What will the bar be like at the welcome party?

It’s an open bar, so no need to bring cash. As the venue is a winery, no hard liquor is allowed on the property, but there will be complimentary wine, beer, and NA beverages.

What will the bar be like at the wedding?

It’s an open bar, so no need to bring cash. As the venue is a winery, no hard liquor is allowed on the property, but there will be complimentary wine, beer, low-proof signature cocktails, and NA beverages.

Do you have a registry?

We set up a registry on Zola. You can find it here.